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We are going to talk about trust later but I want to encourage you some now. The only one we can successfully place our trust in is God. As that relates to us and our spouses, as we begin to allow God to transform who we are we begin to see His fruit manifested in our lives. That is what we place our trust in. We don?t place our trust in our spouses we place our trust in the fruit and righteousness of God reflected through our spouses as He transforms them from the inside out. And I will leave you with a challenge. I challenge you to ask God to teach you about transformation, intimacy and true relationship with Him every single day. Then see what happens. God bless.
Trust ye not in a friend, put ye not confidence in a guide: keep the maid of honor speeches for sister of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom.? Micah 7:5 (KJV)
You may be recognizing by now how greatly trust has failed in your life in the people you?re supposed to know the best being your spouse and yourself. Considering that revelation, it would be a fruitless endeavor to try and place your trust in any other relationship.
Many of us enter into marriage placing our trust in our spouse?s and live out the life of the marriage with frequent disappointment and hurt. Just think about it. Considering how many times you have let yourself down, how in the world do you expect to be able to hold your spouse?s trust? I?ll just let you reflect on this for yourselves. How many times has your spouse broken trust? How many times have they shattered your hope? How many times has the phrase ?This is the last time? turned out to be a lie? On top of that, the 80% sagittarius and pisces friendship rate is too big to ignore and most people recognize that possibility prior to marriage, thus damaging their trust some right from the start. How many times has your trust been damaged by lies of omission?
I have heard the phrase ?The only one we can trust is ourselves? come out of many-a-mouths and it?s laughable every time. I?m not trying to be rude but the idea that we can trust ourselves is ridiculous. Take a moment and consider your life. How many times have you been proven trust worthy to yourself? Think about all of the failures, poor decisions and all the times you have caused pain to people you love and care about. How many times have you let yourself down? Addiction is a classic example of how untrustworthy we are. There is no one out there who enjoys their addictions.
Everyone tries to quit the destructive behavior but the percentages of those who are successful are very low. Only 2.5% of smokers successfully quit every year and only 5% of alcoholics, drug addicts and compulsive gamblers successfully quit. These are only some of the obvious addictions but there are many addictions and the failure rate is the same. You can?t trust yourself plain and simple. If you could then it would mean that you could overcome the kingdom of Satan by yourself without help and nullify the need for salvation.